Home Page
Link to printable order form

Keeping Kids Connected


Click here for quick link to publications


Current training


Effective Peer Support : Being There - Supportive Friends


Are you wanting an effective peer support programme?

We can offer:

- a peer support training programme which in August 2009 won an “Order of Australia Award” for Mount Erin Secondary College, Victoria, Australia. We are only people in the UK licensed by Stride Foundation (formerly Peer Support Victoria), Australia to use this system.
- a programme you can implement immediately
- a range of problem solving techniques for developing the work
- advice on implementing and running the scheme
- on-going support to adult trainers
- additional modules to the training

If you already have a peer support programme this training offers:

- advice on development work for your exist scheme
- top-up training on problem solving techniques such as Solution Focused Practice, cognitive behaviour therapy
- mediation
- a module on loss and bereavement
- an optional module on depression and suicide intent
- ways of evaluating your scheme to ensure it is effective

If you want peer supporters to address significant anxiety, emotional distress and low-key behavioural difficulties this training offers:

- the additional module ‘Tacking Depression and Suicide Intent’
- an understanding of the signals, presentation and rationales of a range of emotional
- and behavioural difficulties

Delegates receive a manual containing:

- a copy of the training programme with full instructions
- material for top-up sessions
- prompt cards for the peer supporters
- an explanation of the psychological theory underlying the strategies and techniques used in the training.

All training is delivered by Dr Val Besag who is an experienced teacher and educational psychologist. Val has been training peer supporters for 20 years. She was awarded a Winston Churchill Travel Scholarship in 1999 for her work on peer support. Val has been commissioned to put the scheme in schools throughout several local authorities. We offer on-going support to adult trainers.

Val is also able to offer in situ training of peer supporters in school. Contact us for costs and details of other training courses.

Who should attend?

Suitable for all those involved in the social and emotional development of young people 9-18 years. These include those working in teaching, learning mentoring and support work in schools, attendance and inclusion, behaviour support, educational psychology, peer support, children’s services, child protection and safeguarding children, children’s social care, looked after children, diversity and equality, Connexions and youth work, young carers, CAMHS, youth offending and juvenile justice.

Date : Wednesday 10th March 2010
Fee £125 including a free copy of the manual "Supportive Friends".
Location : Beaumanor Hall, Woodhouse, Leicestershire LE12 8TX

Cheques payable to Val Besag. Invoices can be sent if required.

Refunds: Available if the delegate notifies us at least one week in advance of the training taking place. Substitute delegates allowed.

Please return completed form to Training Organiser, 3 Jesmond Dene Terrace, Jesmond, Newcastle upon Tyne, NE2 2ET Tel: 0191 281 7298 Email: training@valbesag.co.uk : www.valbesag.co.uk

If more than one delegate is attending then you can photocopy this form.

Please also distribute this form to colleagues who may be interested in this training.

Booking details for this course are here.


One girl helping another


Bullying including Workplace Bullying


Peer Support


Dyspraxia


Emotional Literacy


Girls' Friendships and Conflicts

Val Besag Dr Val Besag is an internationally recognised authority in the area of bullying and peer support. She is an experienced teacher, a consultant educational psychologist and university tutor. Val has worked on bullying issues since the mid 1980s and was awarded a NUT/ESU scholarship in 1995 to exchange information on bullying in the USA. In 1999 she was awarded a Churchill scholarship that took her around the world to study the best of peer support systems. In 2002 she completed her third lecture tour of Australia and New Zealand. Val's doctorate work was on girls' friendship and conflicts.


Training Courses for those working with young people


Bullying: Keeping Ahead


Text message bullying Bullying is a behaviour and attitude and, as such, will never go away. It is essential to be up to date when designing programmes and strategies.
Choice of Modules: Girls' Friendships and Conflicts, Whole School Approaches, Pastoral Curriculum, Emotional Literacy, Challenging Behaviour, Low Self Esteem and Depression, Gender Issues.


Dyspraxia

Val has worked in this area for the past 20 years delivering training to schools and working directly with children and families.


Training courses for students wishing to become peer helpers.


From a core training schools can develop a scheme to suit their particular needs that may incorporate one or more peer support system. The training covers: setting up a peer support system, maintaining and evaluating the scheme, opportunities for development.


Seven Secondary School Children

Choice of Modules

Primary/Secondary Schools

Befriending and Buddy Systems
How to help others: respond to overtures, use appropriate approach behaviours, group entry skills, sustain friendships etc.,

Peer Mediation
Mediation is a mode of conflict resolution used in the legal system and family and community disputes. Can reduce playground conflict by 50%.



Secondary Students Only

Being There: Supportive Friends
This acclaimed programme trains groups of students to identify and befriend their peers who are in need. The training includes the use of a solution focused approach to help the student to address their problems. An optional module helps train students to identify and support those with low self-esteem or who are depressed. Val is the only licensed trainer for this course in the UK.
To discuss details please contact Val Besag on 0191 281 7298 or valbesag@valbesag.co.uk

More information is available by clicking on this link


These popular training programmes are based on research and effective practice and introduce skills and ideas for immediate use. Training can be designed to meet individual requests.

The relevant publication is included in the cost of training.


Training for Trainers


1) An Integrated Model of Peer Support

2) Being There: Supportive Friends

3) Mediation

4) Problem solving approaches/Solution Focused Practice

5) Restorative Practices

Only 30 places available on each of the above specialist training courses.
To discuss details about any of the courses please contact Val Besag on 0191 281 7298 or valbesag@valbesag.co.uk


Publications


"Challenging Girls"

Val's newest publications are part of her new 'Challenging Girls' series. They are called 'Addressing Girls’ Bullying' and 'Promoting Girls’ Friendships'. They have already been discussed in articles in The Observer and The Times.

Book One - Addressing Girls’ Bullying (105 pages plus CD-ROM) Dr Valerie Besag (2008)
Book Two - Promoting Girls’ Friendships (98 pages plus CD-ROM) Dr Valerie Besag (2008)

Book One focuses on girls’ bullying and Book Two focuses on girls’ friendship skills. Students are led to discover the key teaching points by a variety of techniques for example, discussions, games, individual and group activities, art and drama. Dr Val Besag was a teacher, educational psychologist and lecturer but now works independently. These materials are based on Val’s years of academic research and work in schools and other establishments with girls of all ages.

- Flexible, comprehensive curriculum materials including group work.
- Wealth of strategies and activities.
- Worksheets printable from the CD-ROM.
- Many activities also appropriate for boys and young adults.
- Piloted and evaluated in various settings.

'A wealth of good stuff.' Principal Educational Psychologist
'These materials will be a brilliant help.' Youth Offending Team.
'A massively impressive resource for schools.' Anti-Bullying Alliance Advisor.
'A comprehensive resource.' Senior Educational Psychologist.
'I have been waiting for a book such as this.' Specialist Advisor for Behaviour. Primary Schools.

Age: 9-18

Ordering information is on this order form


"Understanding Girls' Friendships Fights and Feuds - A Practical Approach to Girls' Bullying"
Dr Valerie Besag (2006)

This book illuminates the issue of girls’ bullying – an issue that can cause a great deal of distress but which is sometimes ignored or dismissed by adults. Drawing on close observations of girls’ behaviour, Val Besag provides an in-depth understanding of girls’ bullying, exploring the mechanisms and language that girls use to entice some into their groups and exclude others.

The book offers detailed practical advice for dealing with girls’ bullying, which will help both students and teachers to understand and combat different kinds of bullying, as well as comprehensive guidance for preventing or reducing bullying activities among girls, including:
- Whole school approaches
- Programmes for developing emotional literacy and resilience
- Approaches for dealing with gangs
- Using methods such as art and drama
- Developing conflict resolution skills
- Student – parent programmes
- Peer support programmes

This is key reading for teachers, trainee teachers, educational psychologists and social workers, academics and researchers in the field, and others who have an interest in creating bully-free schools and societies.
Click here for a PDF version of the flier
Ordering information
Times Education Supplement : It's a girl thing (Review of the book)


"We Don't Have Bullies Here!"
Dr Valerie Besag (2002)

Comprehensive, fully photocopiable materials. Includes two sets of survey materials - one for primary school children and one for secondary school children.


Girl being bullied

Contents

Overview of the problem, recent research, preventative and response strategies, dynamic whole school policies, ideas for videos, case studies, bullying groups and gangs, girls' bullying, homophobic bullying and text messaging. Peer support systems- befriending, buddies, mediation, counselling. Working with parents, lunchtime supervision, curriculum approaches etc.

Durable 4 ring binder - 170 pages.


Reviews


"This training pack, based on best research, contains many effective strategies, giving teachers the structure for a whole school policy." Esther Ranzen, ChildLine

"An excellent initiative to address the increasingly recognised need to combat bullying." Professor Peter Smith. Past Director D.E.S. Bullying Project.
Ordering information


"Preventing and Responding to Bullying in Schools" (2005)
Dr Valerie Besag

Preface

The purpose of this booklet is to help all those working in schools with young people to develop good practice in relation to bullying. This includes the identification of bullying behaviour, incorporating even the subtle and covert modes, sound preventative practices and strategies to support those involved as bullies, victims or witnesses.

Effective practice is identified within schools and in the wider community. Bullying needs to be addressed through the school policy and the daily practice of all working in the school. The range of work carried out in schools can be informed and supported by formal and informal links with others working in the community.

The information presented in this booklet is drawn from published research and proven, effective practice in schools.
Review
Ordering information


"Bullies and Victims in Schools : A guide to understanding and management"
Valerie Besag (1989)

Available on Amazon by clicking here

Boy being bullied A teacher's handbook for dealing with bullying, and an analysis of how schools can produce an environment that protects against bullying but which can respond effectively in a crisis.

"....one of the best reviews of what is known about bullying at present..." School Psychology International

"Every school and all professionals who advise on children's problems would do well to have a copy ready to hand" Journal of Child Psychology and Psychiatry.


Coping with Bullying CD-ROM (1999)


Part of Award Winning Series 'Coping with Life'


ISCPP 'Best Community Project in the World' and Information Society awards. Only resource of its kind recommended by the DfES. Most thorough anti-bullying resource available.


Accomplished - Comprehensive - Convenient - Flexible

Co-ordinated by leading experts, reviewed by teachers and L.E.A.s.
Contains 16 hours of multimedia (video, audio, animations and text.)

Now supplied with the three map guides displayed.

Primary School and Secondary School versions available.


An important resource for use wherever there are children.

Click on each map below to see it as a larger image.

CD-ROM map 1 thumbnail CD-ROM map 2 thumbnail CD-ROM map 3 thumbnail

Ordering information


Previous conferences and training

Challenging Girls training course

Training days supporting two new publications dealing with girls’ bullying and friendships.

Tuesday 14th October 2008 Norwich
Thursday 5th March 2009 York
Monday 22nd June 2009 Nottingham
Tuesday 30th June 2009 St Helens

Course details

Curriculum and Group Work Materials for primary and secondary schools

Book One: “Addressing Girls’ Bullying”
Book Two: “Promoting Girls’ Friendships”
Both books fully photocopiable plus each comes with a CD-ROM

What the training offered

- An understanding of girls’ conflicts.
- Practical problem solving approaches.
- Working with individual bullies and victims.
- The dynamics of group work.
- Making the curriculum work more effective.
- Working productively with parents.

What the books offered

- These flexible materials provide a comprehensive curriculum for a class or a selection can be used with a group in difficulty.
- Students are led to discover the key teaching points by a variety of techniques : discussions, games, individual and group activities, art and drama.
- Each book can be used independently.
- The materials contain a wealth of strategies and activities.
- Worksheets are printable from CD-ROM.
- Many of the activities are also appropriate for boys and young adults.
- They are piloted and evaluated in a wide variety of settings.

Comments

- “The materials form a logical pathway into all the obstacles girls face over the years and give teachers all the issues they need to deal with working with girls in a neat package. Girls can work their way through them without having to admit to things in public.” Deputy Head, Pastoral, Secondary school.
- “A wealth of good stuff” Principal Educational Psychologist
- “These materials will be a brilliant help” Youth Offending Team
- “A massively impressive resource for schools” Anti-Bullying Alliance Advisor
- “A comprehensive resource” Senior Educational Psychologist
- “I have been waiting for a book such as this” Specialist Advisor for Behaviour, Primary Schools.


Understanding and Addressing Girls' Friendships, Fights and Feuds

This training took place in Gateshead November 15th 2006, Cheadle November 20th 2006, Cambridge January 12th 2007, Birmingham June 8th 2007, London June 25th 2007, Glasgow March 17th and 18th 2008, Edinburgh March 19th 2008.

Comments received from the above training days include:
'huge amount of information', 'really interesting and useful', 'extremely valuable and thought provoking'

Led by Dr Val Besag a former teacher, educational psychologist and author of several publications on bullying. Val is an international speaker on bullying having started addressing this issue in 1985. The day will be based on recent research and proven best practice pertaining to the behaviour of girls.

Why this concerns you?

Although bullying involving girls is often more subtle in character, the repercussions can be more destructive and longer lasting than the effects of the more obvious forms of bullying found among boys. Girls' quarrels can be more time consuming and difficult to resolve than the disputes of boys.
These issues involving girls have only recently been recognised.

What did the training cover? :

- the dynamics of girls' social behaviour
- the cause and effect of disputes between girls
- demonstration and discussion of effective strategies and techniques
- groups and gangs
- ethnic issues
- sexual bullying
- curriculum materials
- dealing with jealousy, anger and depression
- most challenging cases : dealing with vulnerability and aggression
- bullying via technology
- legal responsibility
- strategies for parents to use


Serious Games - playful approaches to mental health

This conference took place on 5th November 2004 Bar Convent - York

What did the course aim to achieve?

The conference presented preventative and remedial approaches and materials for use in mainstream schools, the community and specialist settings. Many of the strategies were developed to engage troubled children and young people and so are innovative, attractive, engaging and fun.

Reg Davis

School Link Coordinator, Children and Young Peoples Mental Health Services, Central Coast Health, Australia.

Reg is a Senior Clinical Psychologist who has worked for last 25 years in Child and Adolescent Mental Health both in public and private practice. He has developed projects aimed at youth suicide prevention and the promotion of mental health in schools. He is interested in finding ways of engaging young peoples thinking in a manner that is action based, interactive and involves their imagination and creativity. He has developed games, interactive multimedia and staged youth events related to key mental health issues that connect young people to themselves, their peers and community. He has been awarded a Gold award in Mental Health promotion for "OutaSite: intergalactic guide to high school" is currently in the UK on a 2004 Churchill Fellowship.

Lynne Moxon

Specialist consultant psychologist to the European Services for people with Autism (ESPA).

Lynne works as Senior Lecturer and Course Leader for the Masters degree in Education Studies and Autism at Northumbria University. Her doctorate work is on the subject of Sexuality and Asperger's Syndrome. Lynne is an experienced practitioner with an innovative and humorous approach to the young people in her care.


Effective Responses to Bullying in Schools

This conference took place on 1st July 2004 Swallow Hotel - Gateshead led by Dr Val Besag.

Despite significant government funding and the introduction of a range of interventions over recent years, bullying is still in evidence in our schools. Recent research throws light on some of the complex issues involved and points to innovative ways forward. This conference will concentrate on identifying proven practical responses to the problem.

Dr Val Besag is an international speaker on bullying having started addressing this issue in 1985. She continues to address international conferences on bullying and related issues. Val is an experienced teacher and chartered educational psychologist. She was awarded a Churchill Travelling Fellowship to study peer support systems around the world, particularly those addressing depression and suicide in the young, and gay, lesbian and bi-sexual issues. Her doctoral study was on girls' bullying. Val's publications sell internationally and she was lead author of the acclaimed CD-ROM Coping with Bullying.


The Journal Be A Buddy Not A Bully Campaign Conference

This conference took place on 31 May 2002 Swallow Hotel - Gateshead led by Dr Val Besag.

Despite significant government funding and the introduction of a range of interventions over recent years, bullying is still in evidence in our schools. Recent research throws light on some of the complex issues involved and points to innovative ways forward. The conference concentrated on identifying practical responses to the problem.

'The Journal's 'Be a Buddy not a Bully' campaign is a positive and proactive way of highlighting the devastating effects of bullying and how the problem is being tackled. This conference will form a crucial part in our unique regional drive to stamp out bullying in schools.'
Ged Henderson, Editor of The Journal, Newcastle.

Bullying can wreck lives. We need to keep a vigilant watch over our young people to ensure they grow up in safety. This conference highlights the need for us all to work together as a community in order to address the problem effectively. I give my full support to this important work.
Jonathan Edwards C.B.E. 2000 Olympic Triple Jump Champion


Being There - Supportive Friends

This training took place on 11 January 2002 (Cambridge) and 25 January 2002 (Nottingham).

What is it?

The Supportive Friends programme gives practical life skills to students assisting them to cope with the pressures of their final years in school and to support their peers. The programme is a vitally important part of a whole school approach to the improved well-being and safety of students.

What aspects does the programme cover?

- Basic counselling and referral skills
- Self-esteem and confidence
- Anxiety and depression
- Resilience
- Problem-solving
- School reflection - How supportive are we?


Addressing Depression and Suicide in the Young

Conferences took place on 20 Sept 2001 (York) and 24 Sept 2001 (London). Speakers were Rhonda Briscoe (Australia) and Dr Val Besag (U.K). This conference was supported by the Winston Churchill Memorial Trust.

Rhonda Briscoe

Rhonda Briscoe has qualifications in teaching, special education, social work and family therapy. She has been committed to the welfare of young people during a long and varied career. She has worked as a teacher and counsellor with students in many primary and secondary schools and has been on the staff of three Australian Universities. Her current position at Peer Support Victoria in Australia involves training teachers and students in various welfare programmes, focusing especially on anti-bullying, friendship development and suicide prevention. All of the Peer Support programmes are on the philosophy that since same-age or older peers have the most influence on young people, enpowering selected students to support other, more vulnerable, individuals can have enormous personal benefits for both groups.

Being There - The Supportive Friends progamme has now been introduced into a large number of secondary schools in Victoria and is highly acclaimed by teachers as a worthwhile suicide prevention initiative.


Emotional Literacy

Conferences took place on 13 June 2001 (York) and 18 June 2001 (London). Speakers were Dr Robert Dave (U.S.A.) and Dr Val Besag (U.K.).

Dr Robert Dave

Dr Robert Dave is a consultant clinical and forensic psychologist who is Head of the Psychosocial Department in Punahou School, Honolulu where he leads a team of six specially qualified teachers. The school has 4000 students, 300 of whom, at any time, are involved in a range of programmes addressing self development and peer support. Bob Dave has developed the programmes over the last 12 years. The school is considered a centre of excellence. He is a former faculty member of the University of Hawaii and California State University. Bob is listed in the Who's Who of American Teachers 1999.

Bob Dave wrote a book entitled "Run to the Sun." Click here: Amazon.co.uk: A Glance: Run to the Sun



valbesag (Training and Publications), 3 Jesmond Dene Terrace, Jesmond, Newcastle upon Tyne, NE2 2ET - Tel 0191 281 7298 - e-mail training@valbesag.co.uk - http://www.valbesag.co.uk